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Friday, 9 October 2015

Announcing the third edition of J2S - Your Journey to Savvy Group Distance Coaching Program!

Announcing the third edition of the very popular J2S Your Journey to Savvy Group Distance Coaching Program! 

Stay motivated and progressive through the winter months, with support from a Licensed Parelli 3 Star Instructor and a community of like-minded students.

Registrations are now open, four different packages to choose from. Class starts November 1st! Check out the details in on www.vifargent.com/yourjourneytosavvy



WHY

This guided distance coaching program was designed to answer many of my students’ and my own challenges with learning the Parelli program at home.  Many of us feel the need to break through the feeling of isolation, have fun, stay progressive, keep the motivation alive and find ways to continue advancing despite weather, facility or time constraints.  The program will provide accountability and consistency, which are key to reaching your horsemanship objectives.  It is built to help you stay focused, stay on track, spark your imagination and inspire new ideas through regular homework, consistent help and support from a Licensed Parelli Professional, as well as opportunities to connect, share and celebrate your achievements with other members of the group.
WHAT
This is a unique group coaching and support program which does not require you to leave home and allows you to learn under the guidance of a Licensed Parelli Professional; it also provides access to a community of like-minded aspiring natural horsemen and women.  Through homework, weekly group meetings and coaching, you will be able to keep advancing your skills, stay inspired and motivated and share your experience and successes with other students in the program.
Your questions will be answered and you will no longer find yourself ‘stuck’ with no idea on how to start moving forward again.  The homework and challenges will spark your imagination, help you develop your leadership and deepen your relationship with your horse.
It can be done anywhere, anytime and only requires a commitment to learn and the desire to participate (… and an Internet connection).
If your horse is recreation for you, can you be recreation for your horse?

You are not alone!  Join us to stay motivated and get support on your journey to excellence!

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Saturday, 20 December 2014

Your Journey To Savvy - A Guided Group Learning Program at Home to Advance Your Parelli Journey

Announcing Your Journey To SavvyTM - A Guided Group Learning Program at Home to Advance Your Parelli Journey.




Learn * Experience * Share * Achieve * Celebrate

This program was designed to answer many of my students’ and my own challenges with learning the Parelli program at home.  Many of us feel the need to break through the feeling of isolation, have fun, stay progressive, keep the motivation alive and find ways to continue advancing despite weather, facility or time constraints.  The program will provide accountability and consistency, which are key to reaching your horsemanship objectives.  It is built to help you stay focused, stay on track, spark your imagination and inspire new ideas through regular homework, consistent help and support from a Licensed Parelli Professional, as well as opportunities to connect, share and celebrate your achievements with other members of the group.

Starts January 1st, 2015

For more information or to sign up, visit www.vifargent.com/yourjourneytosavvy

Tuesday, 30 September 2014

The 7 Keys to Success - Key no. 5: TIME

Right at the beginning of his Natural Horsemanship book, Pat Parelli introduces his Level 1 theory by outlining the six keys to success.  They are:  Attitude, Knowledge, Tools, Techniques, Time and Imagination. Since the original publication of the book years ago, a seventh key has been added:  Support

In my earlier posts, we focused on the first three keys:  AttitudeKnowledgeTools and Techniques.  In this post, I will introduce the fifth key to success, TIME.

Key 5: Time

When they are first learning about the Parelli program, some people might comment that it seems to take a lot of time.  In our society of instant gratification, we tend to want to want to find out what buttons to push to get an immediate result or ‘fix’ the horse.  Unfortunately, this does not work with relationships in general, and certainly not with equines.  One of my favourite sayings is Take the time it takes so it will take less time’.  How many people do you know won’t take the time to do it right, but will continue doing the same thing over and over again without improving their result?

You have to invest time to improve yourself and your horse, IN THAT ORDER.  Yes, you see, most often the answers lie within us, and the horse is just a reflection of our level of knowledge and horsemanship.  Looking in the mirror can be challenging, but once we commit to becoming better partners for our horses, they will often turn around very quickly.  Horses learn 4 to 7 times faster than humans; that is a built-in genetic feature that has allowed them to survive through the ice ages.  We are the slow ones!

Learning is sometimes best done without a horse!  Simulations are a great tool to improve human skills
The great news is that Parelli has a detailed and sequential program that will help you learn what we learned much faster, because you won’t have to spend time figuring out the lessons the hard way! Ask yourself, how much time do you get to spend with your horse? Is it always enjoyable and stimulating? Would you enjoy spending more time if it was more interesting and rewarding? Would it help if the time really counted for something?
Here is the other piece of good news.  With time well-spent playing with your horse, even if you need to take a break in time, you and your partner can pick up right where you left off – there will be no gap in learning.  Why?  Because you are building a relationship… It would be like picking up a conversation with an old friend you had not seen in a while. The foundation of love, language and leadership in equal doses solidifies the relationship and it sticks.

You may also want to consider this question:  are my horse’s basic needs being met when I am away?  Horses need more than food and shelter to thrive mentally and physically.  They require constant movement, social interaction and play to avoid stress, illness and mental disorders.  Keep in mind that even if you see you horse an hour a day, he has 23 more hours to think about things he could be doing either with you, without you or to you… 

Most importantly, make that limited time you might have to spend with him count, so that he starts looking forward to your visits!  I love it when my horses head for the pasture gate when they hear my truck in the driveway, and wait with anticipation as I walk towards them with ears pricked forward and all eyes on me!  Wouldn’t you?
If your horse is recreation for you, are you recreation for your horse?
We would love to hear your comments or questions.  If you enjoyed this post, please don’t hesitate to share with your friends.  Until next time, keep it natural!


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For more info on Parelli training, visit www.vifargent.com

Tuesday, 1 July 2014

The Seven Keys to Success - Key no. 2: Knowledge


This is the second article in my series for ProChaps on the topic The Seven Keys to Success! Right at the beginning of his Natural Horsemanship book, Pat Parelli introduces his Level 1 theory by outlining the six keys to success.  They are:  Attitude, Knowledge, Tools, Techniques, Time and Imagination. Since the original publication of the book years ago, a seventh key has been added:  Support.
Last month we focused on the first key:  Attitude.  In this post, I will introduce the second key to success, Knowledge.

Key 2: Knowledge

For a very long time, most people equated expertise with horses with someone’s ability to ride a horse no matter what.  While this is still the case in many parts of the world, there is now a growing awareness that horsemanship involves way more than just staying on horseback.  Riding is less than half of what you really need to know to be good with horses. There is so much more… how they think, how they learn, what’s important to them, how to communicate with them, how to help them thrive mentally, emotionally and physically, help them reach their own potential and bring out the best in every horse.
Knowledge can be obtained in a number of ways. One of the best features drawing horse lovers to the Parelli Natural Horse.Man.Ship system is the wide array of structured educational material available to support their learning. In addition to the tools that help us to be more effective and to learn feel and timing, Pat and Linda Parelli are constantly producing books, audio and video material to help their students acquire savvy right at home.  This includes a dedicated member site, the Parelli Savvy Club, which offers support, social connection, information and a vast body of learning resources all available for a very affordable membership fee.
Nowadays, thanks to the Internet, you can actually start to learn Level 1 basics on line as a member of the Savvy Club, an option that was not available when I started my natural horsemanship journey in 1999 and would certainly have made my learning so much faster and easier!

Knowledge is also available from Licensed Parelli Professionals.  This passionate group of people dedicate their lives to helping students advance their horsemanship and gain a better and deeper understanding of the materials included in the home study material. Taking lessons and attending clinics keeps students on track and motivated and helps them accelerate their progress.  A qualified instructor helps students recognize when they are repeating the same mistakes over and over, empowers them with new arrows for their quiver and prevents them from practicing the wrong techniques; in other words, they can expertly guide them through the various steps of their learning journey. Working with a LPP is like a super shot of savvy!
Every Licensed Parelli Professionals has been personally and officially approved by Pat Parelli. No one else is. Pat chooses his professionals very carefully and sets a very high standard to ensure that his program is being taught as it should. The training to get this stamp of approval is long and intensive, ensuring that those that teach it have the calibre, the savvy and the human qualities to share the program correctly, safely, fairly, without deviation, empowering their students and horses to learn effectively. Achieving Level 4 horsemanship is a prerequisite for all aspiring Parelli Professionals, which guarantees the students access to a high level of ability and deep understanding of the horse.
There are also other requirements to be admitted into the professional training program, such as experience, horsemanship, the ability to work in teams, interpersonal skills, teaching ability, emotional fitness, work ethic, personal habits, etc. Parelli instructors are not only horsemen and women, they are trained to teach! We have all met someone who is able to do something with a horse but lacks the ability to communicate their knowledge effectively.  Last but not least, we are required to update our skills which are re-evaluated on a yearly basis. This ensures a very high level of competence, currency and consistency with all Parelli instructors.
Speaking of the Parelli levels:   Levels 1 to 4 are designed to teach humans. Teaching horses is quite different and is best achieved after Level 4.  One of the best pieces of information we can share with you is “Green on green makes black and blue”.  The skills, athletic ability and experience required to train a young or challenging horse are extensive, and it may not be something you want to undertake if you are just getting started in horses!  Be smart and realistic when it comes to choosing the equine partner that will help you learn and grow in confidence.
We would love to hear your comments or questions. 
Until next time, keep it natural!

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For more info on Parelli training, visit www.vifargent.com

Saturday, 24 May 2014

The Seven Keys to Success: Key no. 1 Attitude



Geneviève Benoit and Pat Parelli at the Florida Campus in 2007

Check out the first of a series of blog articles I will be doing in the next few months for Prochaps on the topic The Seven Keys to Success!  This week, I am posting about Attitude and what it means to your success with horses (and other life endeavours).

Right at the beginning of his Natural Horsemanship book, Pat Parelli introduces Level 1 theory by outlining the six keys to success.  They are:  Attitude, Knowledge, Tools, Techniques, Time and Imagination. Since the original publication of the book years ago, a seventh key has been added:  Support.

Through this blog series, we will be touching on each one of these keys.  Achieving any horsemanship goal is a journey that requires commitment, perseverance, focus and discipline as well a substantial amount of effort sustained over a long period of time. As in any major endeavour in life, these seven keys, if understood and applied, will help you succeed beyond your expectations. Some may come more easily to you than others; however, to get the formula right, we need to keep our focus on all seven keys.

Key 1: The Horseman’s (Woman’s) Attitude

Can you be natural, positive and progressive all at once, all the time? Most people are either one or the other at any time, sometimes two of these things, but can rarely master all three at once. Some people are natural, and positive, but they get stuck doing the same thing over and over and fail to make progress. Others are very progressive, but may not be taking the time it takes to do it in a natural way; they tend to resort to force and artificial tools to reach their goals. And then there are people that will find wrong with anything and everything, including their own selves; as they strive to achieve their goals, they don’t understand that often they are standing in their own way.
Attitude is a choice that we make every day. How we decide to perceive our life and respond to life’s events is really up to us! We each have the ability to choose our attitude and to view the possibilities in every situation. When things are not working as expected, it can be tempting to blame the horse.  Remember that you picked him and bought him, he did not have a choice!  What are you doing to bring out the best in your horse?  What are you doing to become the best leader for him you can be?  What are you choosing to see?
The Parelli program teaches us to stay calm, cool and collected, which is exactly what we would like to see in our horses! A natural, positive and progressive attitude allows us to focus your energy on our goals, on the good that surrounds us everyday, on the little successes and on the gold nuggets that lie on the path waiting to be found. Trusting the process to get there, even though it may not look like the finished product yet, is another way to define the right attitude of horsemanship.
You enjoyed this article?  Let us know by submitting your comments and feel free to share with your friends!

For more info on Parelli training, visit www.vifargent.com

Thursday, 1 May 2014

I love my horse! Or how I got into Parelli Natural Horse.Man.Ship

At their invitation, I have been publishing on the Prochaps Blog which features inspirational article for all riders.  Here is the first one published on April 14th, 2014.
Geneviève Benoit, a Licensed Parelli 3-Star Instructor and Equine Canada Certified Classical Coach, performs at the London Parelli Horse & Soul Tour Stop in 2013 – wearing her Prochaps (photo).
At ProChaps, we are really proud that she has accepted our invitation to share her story-and much more- with you.  On the 3rd Tuesday of each month, she will go through one of the Parelli 7 Keys to Success: Attitude, Knowledge, Tools, Techniques, Time, Imagination, and Support.

I love my horse!  Or how I got into Parelli Natural Horse.Man.Ship

Click here to read more...  http://blog.prochaps.com/love-horse-got-parelli-natural-horse-man-ship/

Saturday, 21 September 2013

Linda Parelli - Motivating the Lazy Horse

Great tips from Linda Parelli on motivating your Left Brain Introvert
  • Be more interesting
  • Do the unexpected
  • Use reverse psychology
  • Ask less until they offer more


You enjoyed this article?  Let us know by submitting your comments and feel free to share with your friends!


For more info on Parelli training, visit www.vifargent.com

Sunday, 11 August 2013

What do you mean my horse is my mirror? By Linda Parelli




What to you mean my horse is my mirror?  It’s funny. I never really noticed that all four horses I’ve owned had the same problem…they were highly excitable and were prone to run off with me. All I could think was, “Why do I keep choosing this type of horse?” I know, now, that it was no accident. My horses were trying to teach me something—if only I could be humble enough to listen. I finally did, and here is my story about learning to take responsibility. 

I never thought that there was anything wrong with me if one of my horses dragged me while I was leading him, or if he couldn’t stand still to be groomed…saddled…mounted, or if he wouldn’t get into a trailer. Boy, did I learn a lot. 


Here is a great blast from the past - this is the first article written by Linda Paterson (now Parelli!) about her journey to Natural Horsemanship, published in 1995.


Click to read the whole article!

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Saturday, 11 May 2013

You Gotta Have a Goal - by Linda Parelli


In this great article, Linda Parelli talks about the importance of setting goals to guide your horsemanship journey and keep you focused.  Good leadership starts with a vision and a plan.

What is your goal for your horsemanship? Do you have one? Can you respond within five seconds? It’s important to have a goal you are passionate about because it will fuel you in every way.

You’ll get out of your comfort zone, learn things you never expected to, get to new levels of trust and connection with your horse, accomplish things that most people don’t, feel more alive! 

Click here to read the whole article!

 

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Friday, 19 April 2013

Spring is coming! Are you ready to get started or to resume your progress?

Spring is coming!  For many horse lovers, it is a time to start spending more time outdoors and to resume equestrian activities after the long winter months!  As always, I look forward to sharing with you again this year the incredible journey called Parelli.
I often get asked the following question:  Where do I need to start on my Parelli journey?  So here are a few tips to get you on your way and to set you up for success, or to help you advance if you are already active in the program and need guidance for the next step.

Also in this newsletter: 
  • Parelli Intensive Foundation Camp with Ryan Rose
  • Unique opportunity at the Parelli Horse & Soul Tour in London, ON
  • Upcoming Events  

«My play time has been limited, however I have put your last advice to good use with Java my LB/E (lots of backup/sideways and "no rules" concept, exercise before obedience, etc) and we have made progress with lots of connection from him. In fact at our last play day here a few  weeks ago my Parelli friends had commented on how much we had advanced since last fall.» 
K.M.L., Nova Scotia


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Le printemps est à nos portes! Êtes-vous prêt à reprendre les activités équestres?

Le printemps est à nos portes!  Pour beaucoup d'amateurs de chevaux, c'est le temps de sortir dehors et de reprendre les activités équestres après les longs mois en hibernation!  Comme toujours, j'ai hâte de pouvoir partager avec vous encore cette année cet incroyable voyage qu'est Parelli.

Je me fais régulièrement poser cette question:  Où dois-je commencer pour apprendre Parelli?  Voici donc quelques conseils pour vous aider à démarrer et mettre en place les clés de la réussite, ou à avancer si vous êtes déjà actifs dans le programme et êtes à la recherche de la prochaine étape.
Aussi dans cette infolettre:
  • Le Camp Intensif Parelli 2013
  • Évènements à venir 
  • Occasion unique pour la tournée Parelli Horse & Soul à London, ON 
  • Parelli en français 
«N 'hésitez pas à prendre des cours et à suivre des cliniques. Cela en vaut réellement le coût.  Faites-vous de petits groupes et faites venir Geneviève, profitez au maximum de la chance que nous avons d 'avoir à notre disposition un instructeur agrée Parelli au Québec qui se déplace.»
N.T., Québec

Vous avez aimé cet article?  N'hésitez pas à nous en faire part en publiant un commentaire et à le partager avec vos amis!

Tuesday, 2 April 2013

A Conversation About The Journey and Parelli Connect

The 7th key to Parelli success is SUPPORT.  Read this great blog about what Parelli students have to say about it!

The most amazing aspect of the Parelli Natural Horsemanship journey is this community of warm, loving, caring, compassionate, sharing, insightful, supportive friends from every corner of the earth with one heart, open minds, and open arms. We may never physically meet, but you are some of my closest friends.

A Conversation About The Journey and Parelli Connect


Click here to check the Parelli Connect Site.

Monday, 1 April 2013

Entrevue avec Ekuus, Partie 5 - Interview with Ekuus Part 5

Je vous invite à écouter la dernière partie de l'entrevue avec la Fondation Ekuus, organisme québécois de thérapie facilitée par les chevaux visant les adolescentes victimes d'agression sexuelle (Approche Egala).

Cette semaine, il a été question des 7 Jeux avec le cheval, des ressources et du soutien disponibles au Québec pour apprendre l'équitation naturelle et des efforts nécessaires pour arriver à exceller avec les chevaux.  Nous avons brossé un portrait des qualités humaines et de l'attitude requises pour tisser un lien solide avec nos partenaires équins.  Il est établi que c'est à l'humain de modifier son comportement et son approche afin d'aider le cheval à comprendre ce qu'on attend de lui et à fonctionner dans son monde.  Geneviève Benoit partage certains aspects de son cheminement personnel au fur et à mesure qu'elle progresse dans son horsemanship.


N'hésitez pas à mettre vos commentaires ci-dessous!

Cliquez ici pour ré-écouter la partie 1
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Cliquez ici pour écouter la troisième partie
Cliquez ici pour écouter la quatrième partie

Cliquez ici pour écouter le segment de cette semaine! 

This is the last part of the interview with Fondation Ekuus, an organisation here in Quebec using horse assisted therapy to help teenagers who suffered sexual abuse (Egala certified).

This week, we discussed the 7 Games, the resources and support available in Quebec to learn natural horsemanship and what it takes to learn to excel with horses.  We touched on the human qualities and attitude required to build a strong relationship with our equine partners.  Ultimately, it is up to the human to modify his behavior and approach to help the horse understand what we want and how to operate in Humanville.  Geneviève Benoit shares aspects of her personal development journey as she progresses in her horsemanship.

Click here to listen to Week 1
Click here to listen to Week 2 
Click here to listen to Week 3 
Click here to listen to Week 4

Click here to listen to this week's podcast

Tuesday, 26 March 2013

Entrevue avec Ekuus, 4ème Partie - Interview with Ekuus, Part 4

Je vous invite à écouter la quatrième partie de l'entrevue avec la Fondation Ekuus, organisme québécois de thérapie facilitée par les chevaux visant les adolescentes victimes d'agression sexuelle (Approche Egala).

Cette semaine  il est question de la psychologie équine et des différentes personnalités de chevaux, de la manière dont le cheval perçoit le monde et de ses besoins prioritaires, ce qui nous mène à comprendre les facteurs qui le motivent à apprendre et à modifier son comportement envers l'humain.  Valéry Gagné partage aussi ses expériences et ses découvertes au contact de son premier cheval.

N'hésitez pas à mettre vos commentaires ci-dessous!

Cliquez ici pour ré-écouter la partie 1
Cliquez ici pour écouter la deuxième partie 
Cliquez ici pour écouter la troisième partie

Cliquez ici pour écouter le segment de cette semaine! 

This is part 4 of the interview with Fondation Ekuus, an organisation here in Quebec using horse assisted therapy to help teenagers who suffered sexual abuse (Egala certified).

This week, we discussed equine psychology and different HorsenalityTM types, how the horse perceives the world around him and his priority needs, which helps us understand his motivation to learn and to modify his behavior around humans.  Valéry Gagné also shares her experience and discoveries with her first horse.  The interview was conducted in French.
Please let me know what you think by posting your comments below!

Click here to listen to Week 1
Click here to listen to Week 2 
Click here to listen to Week 3

Click here to listen to this week's podcast

Tuesday, 19 March 2013

Entrevue avec Ekuus, Troisième Partie - Interview with Ekuus, Part 3

Je vous invite à écouter la troisième partie de l'entrevue avec la Fondation Ekuus, organisme québécois de thérapie facilitée par les chevaux visant les adolescentes victimes d'agression sexuelle (Approche Egala).

Cette semaine il a été question de ce qui caractérise le programme Parelli, des techniques, du moment présent et de la lecture du langage corporel du cheval, ainsi que de la compatibilité plus ou moins grande entre humains et chevaux.  Geneviève raconte aussi certains cas plus extrêmes rencontrés durant ses années d'enseignement et donne un aperçu des choses possibles avec différents types de chevaux.

N'hésitez pas à mettre vos commentaires ci-dessous!

Cliquez ici pour ré-écouter la partie 1
Cliquez ici pour écouter le segment de la semaine dernière

Cliquez ici pour écouter l'entrevue de cette semaine!


This is part 3 of the interview with Fondation Ekuus, an organisation here in Quebec using horse assisted therapy to help teenagers who suffered sexual abuse (Egala certified).

This week we discussed the unique features of the Parelli program, techniques, being in the moment and learning to read the horse's body language, as well as the match between human and horse.  Geneviève shares a couple of more extreme cases encountered during her years of teaching and provides an overview of what might be done with different types of horses.

Please let me know what you think by posting your comments below!

Click here to listen again to Week 1
Click here to listen to Week 2

Click here to listen to this week's podcast

Saturday, 16 March 2013

The Horse Angels... is born: Excerpt from The Horse Angels, Chapter 14

This is an excerpt of a book by Mark Neihart...  speaking of the role played by the horse in the advent of modern civilization and of the people who chose to honor the debt humans owe to the horse.

«As our technology grows it is easy to forget the past. It is easy to shed off the history and reasons we live like we do. When it comes to the horse we should never forget. There are many, many people who understand this and have taken it upon themselves to educate us and to grow our awareness of the horse. These people I call the Horse Angels, those that spend their lives with and around horses, living that bond, caring for their animals and teaching other people to do the same. These people understand the debt we, as humans, owe the horse. These people are the ones remembering and doing the work. Teaching us the truth about the horse’s gentle nature and their willing spirits that remain to this day. These are the true Horse Angels.»

The Horse Angels... is born: Excerpt from The Horse Angels, Chapter 14:    Once the ranching business began in the western United States, conflict with the wild horse herds was a sure bet. It is the inevitable ...

Tuesday, 12 March 2013

Entrevue avec Ekuus Partie 2 - Interview with Ekuus Part 2

Je vous invite à écouter la deuxième partie de l'entrevue avec la Fondation Ekuus, organisme québécois de thérapie facilitée par les chevaux visant les adolescentes victimes d'agression sexuelle (Approche Egala).

Cette fois je parle de ce qui m'a amené à Parelli après 27 ans d'équitation traditionnelle, et des problématiques fréquemment rencontrées chez les élèves.

N'hésitez pas à mettre vos commentaires ci-dessous!

Cliquez ici pour ré-écouter le segment de la semaine dernière

Cliquez ici pour écouter la deuxième partie de l'entrevue


This is part 2 of the interview with Fondation Ekuus, an organisation here in Quebec using horse assisted therapy to help teenagers who suffered sexual abuse (Egala certified).

This time I told my story and how I came to Parelli after 27 years of traditional riding training, and the types of problems that students frequently face.

Please let me know what you think by posting your comments below!

Click here to listen again to last week's podcast

Click here to listen to Part 2

Sunday, 10 March 2013

Achieving your horsemanship goals Part 2

A couple of weeks ago I shared the first part of an article series by Dr. Stephanie Burns on achieving personal goals.  This is part 2.  Again, this was was written in the context of setting health goals, but the very same applies to horsemanship.

If you don't know Stephanie Burns, she is a leading expert on adult learning and was instrumental in developing the Level 1 and 2 red and blue packs (the version preceding the current brown sets), that are still considered by many today the best home study material released by Parelli to learn the levels.  Have a read, and for more info on Dr. Burns, visit her web site and Facebook Page.



«Here I am starting to talk about TAKING ACTION. By that I mean DOING STUFF in the direction of your goal.
Let’s face it, it seems that it is logical to believe that taking action in this context should be easy. It is YOUR goal, YOU set it, for reasons important to YOU, no one else is making you do it. YOU WANT IT. If you have no physical reason for not being able to get off the couch then what IS the problem!?
But, oh, how hard is it to get off the couch after you have settled in!
And, ahhhh, how hard is it to stop dipping the spoon in the ice cream tub!?
They are indeed hard, very hard. I am being serious! Changing behaviour, to do something new, or to stop something we are comfortable doing, is REALLY hard. Not physically but in another way.»
-- Dr. Stephanie Burns
You have set your goal, why is taking action towards your goal so bloody hard?

Wednesday, 6 March 2013

Podcast: Entrevue avec Ekuus - Interview with Ekuus

Je vous invite à écouter la première partie du Podcast enregistré avec la Fondation Ekuus, organisme québécois de thérapie facilitée par les chevaux visant les adolescentes victimes d'agression sexuelle (Approche Egala).
Quelle belle expérience. Nous avons parlé de Parelli, de horsemanship, de croissance personnelle et de ce que les chevaux peuvent apporter dans nos vies. Ces segments seront diffusés à la radio communautaire à Montréal.  N'hésitez pas à partager vos commentaires!
 


I invite you to check out the first part of the Podcast I did with Fondation Ekuus, an organisation here in Quebec using horse assisted therapy to help teenagers who suffered sexual abuse (Egala certified).

I was a great experience. We talked about Parelli, horsemanship, personal development, leadership and what horses can bring into our lives. These segments will be broadcasted on community radio in Montreal! In French!

Wednesday, 6 February 2013

Achieving your horsemanship goals

Stephanie Burns - Sydney, NSWI thought I would share the following article by Dr. Stephanie Burns.  This one was written in the context of setting health goals, but the very same applies to horsemanship.
If you don't know Stephanie Burns, she is a leading expert on adult learning and was instrumental in developing the Level 1 and 2 red and blue packs (the version preceding the current brown sets), that are still considered by many today the best home study material released by Parelli to learn the levels.

 Have a read, and for more info on Dr. Burns, visit her web site and Facebook Page.





The one thing to remember about all goals, no matter how large, is that they only require small actions in any given moment. Books are written one word at a time. Getting fit is done one day at a time. Clearing our debts takes making small payments regularly. Therefore, goal achievement is about having the ability to initiate small actions and sustain them over time... People who succeed in achieving their goals do not let not being able to do a lot be a good enough reason to do nothing. -- Dr. Stephanie Burns

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